okay, so module development is continuing for buddylist2, for activity, for user relationships, for friends/notice feed etc...
just wondering if anybody on d6 right now has already been through the exercise of picking a "best solution" for typical networking type tools....
right now i'm using friend module with the related notice feed from the same dev.
what it does: shows friends in profile, lets me add/invite friends (they get offsite notification if not registered), view pending/etc, include buddies in user profile, etc - also lets me create friend groups (work, home, club etc) and organize friends in those groups and set permissions for each group related to viewing stuff (like facebook group privacy features) - another cool feature: adds a corkboard to each user profile so if we're friends, i can go to your profile and add a little comment (like a wall on most sites) and the owner of the profile can delete a comment without any additional modules (there are some that do this for comments/nodes, but not needed with friends) also some other stuff, but that's the main part
notice feed (companion from same dev) does cool stuff: adds facebook style updates like activity, but mini - a 'minifeed' (e.g. jim has posted a new blog, jim and suzy are now friends), notifies corkboard postings (jim posted on suzy's corkboard)