Upgrading Drupal

I tried to update from 9.2.10 to 9.3.0 and on running the database update afterwards I get this error:

I was on Drupal 9.2.10 (I think) and composer update installed 9.3.0. Then I updated php to 8.1, and my site broke.

Somehow, I am now locked to Drupal 9.3.0-beta3, which goes to github , which needs a key,....

But I need to get the release 9.3.0 version.

The composer.lock file keeps getting links to the 9.3.0-beta3, even if I remove them. 

How do I get my composer files to work properly again?

I have installed Drupal with composer using composer create-project drupal/recommended-project drupal.

I have Drupal on a Mac OS laptop, all setup with MAMP 6.3 free version (with PHP 7.4.12) on a localhost under htdocs folder.

Composer installed Drupal 9.2.3 for me, but when I logged into Drupal under configuration it recommended a Drupal Core Update.

I recently upgrade drupal to 9 versions via composer. And i am getting following error in drush watchdog:show command 

Error: Class 'Twig_Function_Function' not found in
Drupal\bookmark_field\TwigExtension\BookmarkExtension->getFunctions()

My project use lightning 4 distribution before, but since lightning is not supported any more, so I uninstalled it.
Now I want to upgrade drupal core to 9, I followed instruction :
https://www.drupal.org/docs/upgrading-drupal/how-to-prepare-your-drupal-7-or-8-site-for-drupal-9/upgrading-a-drupal-8-site
and:

I'm pulling my hair out.

Federal client has an airgapped D8 site and they just found out about D9. We've upgraded MariaDB from 5.x to 10.3.7 recently. update.php initially threw a fit over the theme and all the custom modules, but I've fixed those by adding D9 to their minimum requirement. Now the only thing holding update.php back is the following: