Post installation

I have installed the internationalization module i18n. Now I want to have multilingual weblinks. The problem is, that when I create a translation for a weblink, Drupal tells me: "A weblink "" using that link already exists".
Well, that's the idea! I want to use the same url in both English and Dutch translations of the weblink. The only things that have to be translated are the description, etc.
Is there anybody who can tell me what the problem is? Or are weblinks not meant to be translated?

Lukas

In my new comments, a "2" appears as its own line before the body the first time I read a comment. This is obviously some sort of "new" indicator that's not connecting at some point. I'd like to either connect it or drop it, but I can't find the code in comment./module. Can anyone point me the right way? Thanks!

I want to know how to show a picture (thumnail) with the summary on the front page? Thanks.

Fatal error: Allowed memory size of 8388608 bytes exhausted (tried to allocate 42 bytes) in /var/www/html/includes/menu.inc on line 209

Is there a module which lets me search for flexinodes by comparing values in the flexinode as if they were columns in a database table rather than just doing it by freetext search?

So for example if I searched for a flexinode by "father='jim'" then it would pick up just those nodes where 'jim' appeared as a father, and not all nodes which mentioned 'jim'.

If anyone has an answer to this I might be able to sleep tight. Finally

I am having real problems allowing users to my site upload large audio files. Users can upload files up to about 8Mb without problem but file sizes larger than that result in the upload appearing to be workand then returning to a standard page cannot be found page. I have reset the size of file that can be uploaded to 500Mb but still no joy. I have not changed execution time and don't know how to. could it be this? and if so how do I change it. I am running 4.6.3

Thanks

Guy