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I needed a calendar/date component that was better than those dropdowns. I used the JSTools/JSCalendar module and I wrote a component that can be added to the webforms. I had trouble getting it to specify the format and afew other config parameters. Maybe I can work with you to figure out how to add it. Anyway. I attached the file, feel free to include it in CVS/releases if you like.