We just want help why is that so hard for this system to recognize who makes stupid forums like this anyways
The system actually works quite well for everyone, we set it up so that it wouldn't work well for you, and you specifically.
Now if you try posting something productive, maybe we can fix that.
I will soon be leaving the Drupal forums permanently. To understand why, please see this thread.
If you want to have a forum like this, you can look at https://www.drupal.org/node/27367 ("What theme and modules does Drupal.org use?") to find, that d.o uses:
Forum (https://www.drupal.org/handbook/modules/forum) - Provides the Drupal.org forums (http://drupal.org/forum).
The rest is CSS.
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