Drupal Association members fund grants that make connections all over the world.
redhen_relation_connections_page() calls redhen_relation_access() with op "update" and "delete", causing redhen_relation_access() to check the permission "update redhen contact connections" or "delete redhen contact connections" etc.
Neither of these permissions exist. You can change "update" to "edit" for the "edit" link and it appears, but you still need "Edit relations" to make it possible to perform the action. This is different to the behaviour of "add", which does not require "Create Relations".
Correct the "update" permission and add "delete redhen contact connections" and "delete redhen org connections" continue to require "Edit Relations" and "Delete Relations" as well. To be consistent, we would need to check for "Create Relations" when adding.
The alternative is to have custom delete and edit methods to keep us separate from the "Relations" permissions. I'm slightly in two minds.
Happy to make a patch for the favoured method...