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The 1.x flat rate module has the ability to specify if the shipping rate amount has tax included.
This is something we need in this branch as well.
My idea was to have the shipping rate as a config entity (Profile2 style), which would have given us (apart from export / import support) a price field, with that functionality built in.
Since rates are not entities in this code, we need to think of an alternative.